previous polls 6/5/2008 MOTHER'S DAY MEANS: Total Votes: 12 I spoil mom, anyway I possibly can  42% I tell mom how much she means to me  42% I'm thinking of mom, we don't speak  0% I tolerating mom, MD is no different from any other day  0% I fake how I feel about mom and MD  0% I remember mom, she's passed away  17% 23/4/2008 DO YOU KNOW YOUR HIV STATUS? Total Votes: 28 Yes, I get tested often  25% Yes, because I was tested by my insurance  32% Yes, because I was recently in hospital  4% No, I'm not that promiscuous  4% No, lesbians don't get HIV  0% No, I'm too afraid to find out  11% No, I don't care  0% I am HIV+  0% I am HIV-  25% 9/4/2008 WHAT DO YOU CONSIDER REAL SEX? Total Votes: 40 Talking dirty  0% Kissing  8% Touching  5% Penetration with a man  13% Penetration with a woman  28% Masturbating (self or from a partner)  18% Anything that involves an emotional connection  25% Anything that involves wicked thoughts about another person  5% 26/3/2008 HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT BISEXUALITY? Total Votes: 64 It's more a choice than being gay or straight  9% It's a real lifestyle with real women & real emotions  42% They don't exist, pick a side  6% I've never met a real bisexual  0% If they say they're bisexual, it really means they're gay  6% Bisexuals like it easy, they can't commit  9% I'd never date one  27% 19/3/2008 WHAT MAKES YOUR WEEKEND EXCITING? Total Votes: 18 Going to a girl club  0% Eating out with friends  28% Eating in with my girlfriend  28% Hooking up with friends at a girl bar  22% Spending a weekend away with girlfriends  22% Time to surf Mambagirl.com  0% 12/3/2008 IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP EQ? Total Votes: 16 Yes, love and respect of individuality is our priority.  50% No, we both want our own way.  13% Sometimes. Depends on what we're arguing about?  13% No but we want to know how to have it.  0% Of course. She's emotional. I'm intelligent.  25% 27/2/2008 DO YOU DATE STRAIGHT GIRLS? Total Votes: 76 Yes, exclusively.  0% Not intentionally, they hold no interest for me.  9% Yes sometimes, labels mean nothing.  7% Yes, they're always straight until they aren't.  9% Yes - I love the chase.  4% Straight has never been a requirement.  7% When I fall in love, sexual orientation isn't an issue.  26% Never.  38% 13/2/2008 WHICH ROLE ARE YOU COMFORTABLE IN? Total Votes: 88 Butch  5% Stone butch  0% Femme  20% High femme  6% Androgynous  13% Tomboy  18% Sometimes butch, sometimes femme.  23% I switch it up for fun.  10% None  6% 30/1/2008 WHERE ARE THE LESBIANS? Total Votes: 60 Still clubbing it up!  2% Meetiing friends at restaurants for cocktails and lunch.  30% Sharing quality time with friends over a home-cooked meal.  40% In the bars, lots of booze and hot babes!  7% Private parties, you can only do the scene for so long!  20% Changing rooms and the women's section, it's the new lesbian hangout!  2% 16/1/2008 WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS ON ANAL SEX? Total Votes: 56 I love it and regularly include it in my sex play.  43% I'm waiting for the right woman to try it out with.  16% I have fantasised about it but haven't actually tried it.  20% Ugggh you've got to be kidding!  21% 30/12/2007 This New Year I will: Total Votes: 42 Get to know myself better.  10% Spend more time with family & friends.  12% Take long walks on the beach/in the park.  0% Worship the fabulous woman in my life more.  19% Live life honestly and accept the consequences of it.  17% Get rid of emotionally-draining "friends"  12% Do the things i've always dreamed of.  10% Say YES to more parties, kissing girls & small indulgences!  21% 5/12/2007 Xmas holidays is about... Total Votes: 34 Presents  3% Time for yourself  3% Special time to spend with family and friends  44% Shopping!  0% A way to avoid work  3% Quality time with your girl/dogs/cats/fish  15% Getting to do all the things you don't have time for  18% Parties! Parties! Parties!  9% Stress  6% 21/11/2007 Are you going away for the holidays? Total Votes: 34 Yes, down the coast with the rest of Africa.  24% No. I try to avoid the fish ball frenzy.  26% Yes, overseas which we've planned for 6mths.  9% No. Home is the best holiday.  24% Yes, somewhere no one else has discovered - camping!  9% No, all our friends are coming to us.  0% Yes, but leaving just before the 25th.  6% No, this year is our turn to host the families!  3% 7/11/2007 Is porn still a lesbian taboo? Total Votes: 41 Yes, it should be banned.  2% No but it doesn't do anything for me.  7% Yes, and it's degrading to women.  2% No but I don't condemn girls that enjoy it.  17% Yes, I won't admit to watching it.  7% No I love watching it with my girl or alone!  56% Yes, and it shouldn't be encouraged.  0% Hell no, not for me I could start my own DVD store!  7% 25/10/2007 In terms of your age, does Mambagirl.com fulfil your current interests? Total Votes: 40 Yes. I'm 15-25 years and it puts me in the picture of lesbian SA.  20% No. I'm 15-25 years and it doesn't resonate with my lifestyle.  10% Yes. I'm 26-36 years and it's entertaining.  25% No. I'm 26-36 years and the content is too immature/mature for me.  3% Yes. I'm older than 36 and find the changing lesbian world on mambagirl interesting.  23% No. I'm older than 36 and there is absolutely nothing besides this poll that i would particpate in.  8% Mambagirl.com is great just the way it is and it can only get better!  13% 10/10/2007 Why do gay girls generally stay friends with exes? Total Votes: 58 We develop an irreplaceable bond with one another.  29% No one really, truly knows us quite like an ex.  7% There's always a little hope that the romance can be rekindled.  7% She will always be my go-to person.  3% Keep your friends close & your exes even closer!  2% We just don't know how to let go.  10% It's easier than making new friends.  7% She's a standard that other's are measured by!  3% They shouldn't. Over is OVER!  31% 3/10/2007 How are you celebrating your Gay Pride? Total Votes: 12 Quietly, at home, curtains drawn  8% In full force, at the march, with all my brothers and sisters  50% With the hot mambagirls on the mambagirl.com float  0% Shopping. I don’t need a special day to celebrate  33% At the girl parties  0% At home, braaing with some good friends  8% 19/9/2007 What’s the best part of Gay Pride? Total Votes: 33 What’s Gay Pride?  9% The quiet shopping malls  3% The hot girls  6% The gay community coming together  61% Bumping into friends at the march  15% The park to see the great entertainment line up  0% The sexy girl parties  6% Getting home and having a shower  0% 5/9/2007 What is your preferred name for your GF? Total Votes: 58 Babe  52% Honey  2% Darling  7% Bitch  7% We use our real names  5% They're different each time, we make them up  28% We don't use names, adds to the mystery  0% 23/8/2007 Which location makes for the perfect date? Total Votes: 55 Schmooze her with dinner at a rated restaurant  29% Impress her with home-cooked breakfast in bed  18% A simple picnic packed lunch  31% The local drive-in, watching from the back seat  0% Front row seats at the latest hot theatre production  4% A sexy shopping trip at a trendy shopping centre  0% Relaxing drinks at a five star hotel  11% A fun game of ten pin bowling  2% A romantic walk in the park with your/her dogs  5% 31/7/2007 How long after you met your GF, did you move in together? Total Votes: 89 1 year or more, we lived on different continents  28% 6 months, we were still disentangling ourselves from ex-everything!  22% 3 months, but we stayed over alot!  24% 2 months, we couldn't live without one another for any longer  8% 1 month, we wanted to take things slow  4% 2 weeks, we knew we were meant to be  7% Within the first few nights  7% 30/6/2007 What features do you want added to mambagirl.com? Total Votes: 114 Live chatrooms  26% Blogs  4% Music downloads  2% Dating service  18% Discussion forums  8% Personal video uploads  3% mambagirl.com shopping  4% Message boards  4% Lesbian business directory  32% 30/5/2007 Which term do you prefer? Total Votes: 247 Lesbian  20% Dyke  5% Gay  35% Homosexual  1% Lady lover  6% I don't care  8% Don't do labels?  25%